The place of your very first date should be plan very cautiously. A lot of the times, guys assume that taking a woman to a bar and clubs will make them look very cool in her eyes. This is quite a bad idea. Actually, a bar is a not a good place to go out on a date, especially if this is your very first date to this woman. For the reason that bar and clubs are really too noisy and too packed, and you would not be able to spend some time alone with your date nor even you won t able to have a decent conversation with her. That is why; pick a location where you can spend some time with her and talk to her without having a too noisy background like having a date at the park, lake or even at the hill facing the beautiful city view. In this kind of places, you will be able to make a good conversation with her which helps you getting to know more about each other.
Ask appropriate questions and listen carefully...
Being a shy guy, you are not sure about what you should say to your date correctly, and it might look like you are bragging off. Be careful of certain things as it might turn off a woman and she may never want to have a second date with you again. For that reason, instead of thinking so much about what you have to say, try to listen on what she has to say. You can ask some certain facts about her, like her family s culture, about her education or her job, which she may respond instantly. Consequently, whenever she is talking, just lend you ear to her and you may determine some things that you have in common which will lead to a deeper and interesting discussions.
Always be honest and truthful...
Many men assume that women are only attracted to men who are very assertive, and for this reason, try to fake their personalities just to get the attention of women. But you don t have to pretend. Then again, my dating tips for shy men will be: be honest of what you really are, tell her about your true qualities and if you do not have an impressive quality, of course you can improve it. Being honest will earn you a lot of respect from women. She will appreciate it and you will feel better. It will also add on your self confidence and it will make you comfortable.
Work on your physical appearance...
Shy guys always move away from the attention and they dress up in a way that makes them hard to be considered as the center of attraction. Though, they don t realize that because of this, this may make them imperceptible by a lot of women. Even if you are not that good looking, you can easily attract them. Dress up neatly, appropriately and comfortably. This one of the vital flirting tips for shy guys. It can really help you out in getting a woman s attention to you.
Author Resource:-
Janine Hanson is a matchmaking expert for single men and women who established principles of integrity and confidentiality of her clients. Ambience Chat is free chat line where you interact over the phone with other singles all around US.Register for free and connect live http://www.ambiencechat.com
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